Dating Phrase Library
25 First Date Rescue Questions
Move past "What do you do for a living?" and "Where are you from?" Use this library to naturally transition from small talk to meaningful conversation.
Phrase / Question
Vibe
"So since you've lived here for a while, what is your absolute favorite hidden gem in the city?"
Use this to pivot away from "How long have you lived here?"
Casual
"What's the most surprising thing about working in [Their Industry]?"
Use this to pivot away from "Do you like your job?"
Engaging
"Okay, settle a debate for me. If you could only eat one cuisine for the rest of your life, but it couldn't be [Current Cuisine], what are you picking?"
Great for breaking awkward silences when waiting for food.
Playful
"If you had to give a 30-minute TED talk right now with zero preparation, what topic would you choose?"
Find out what they are truly passionate about instantly.
Deep